Coaches turn to us when their players' mentality is THE obstacle keeping them from success. They say...
These girls don't believe in themselves, no matter how many times/ways I try to convince them they're capable.
They crumble after the smallest mistake, unable to bounce back that inning, game or sometimes even longer.
We practice all the time and they know what to do but they keep making costly mental errors.
Then another mistake triggers a snowball inning & it's another game lost we should’ve won.
The worst part is...
I know the mental game is important & we've tried to work on it, but I just can't seem to get through to them.
They'll never reach their potential (& there's a high risk of burnout) if they don't shift their mindset.
The Trophy-Chaser Mindset is holding your players back
Although it's common, this mindset is an OUTDATED approach to the game. Disguised as a "competitive drive to win," it actually sets players up to fail.
Focusing on outcomes puts ambitious athletes (just like yours) on the path to frustration, struggle & burnout.
It’s what keeps them stuck - still not producing on game day like you know they can - despite putting in the work and “committing to the grind.”
The sneaky part is...
It gets coaches like you, too.
This mindset is what's causing those sleepless nights trying to figure out how in the heck to help, more gray hairs (or less hair in general), and sadly, less & less quality time with your OWN loved ones.
But before you think,
"We talk about mental game, trusting the process & controlling the controllables all the time. We can do this on our own!"
Don't make the same mistake we did.
With over 30 years of combined on-field experience... 20+ years of focusing on the mental part of the game... and 7 years implementing our program...
We thought we had more important things to focus on,
and mental training took a back seat.
Sparing you all the details, here are some bullet points of how each of our seasons (at the high school & college levels) went:
- Mental errors
- Snowball innings
- Slumps
- Cliques
- Drama
- Attitudes
- Selfishness
- Meltdowns
(players' AND our own)
- Disappointment
- Frustration
- More tears
If you know, you know... it was ROUGH.
Fortunately, we had the solution: A Sport Psychology-based (& softball-player-proven) way to
Get them out of their heads & into the game.
First, we shift the culture
By shifting them into the Me for We Mindset
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Too many athletes get stuck in the old We OVER Me mentality that just breeds comparison & resentment amongst teammates.
So the VERY first step is to get them to stop comparing themselves to others & take ownership of their own journey.
Only then will they be able to build the mentality they need perform their best.
Then we give them mental tools
That they use daily to overcome & excel
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Sport Psychology professionals studying the most elite performers in sport, have proven: there are certain mental strengths that set the BEST apart from the rest.
They allow athletes to deal with pressure, manage setbacks & bounce back stronger.
ELITE athletes are
Courageous in the face of pressure
Contributing to the team daily
Confident in their abilities
Committed to their goals
Consistent despite challenges
Competitive within the process
This is what we call mental toughness, and it's old news.
The tricky part is HOW to train it.
Most programs are missing crucial steps
The reason everyone's heard of mental training but most players still struggle is because there hasn't been a full-season SYSTEM. Until now!
Most coaches will just TELL their players what they SHOULD be doing:
- "You've gotta believe in yourself"
- "You have to trust the process"
- "I can't want this more than you"
Coaches like you know that doesn't work.
Plus it's frustrating as heck when they don't seem to get it or don't seem willing to change. In reality, it's not their fault. They simply haven't been trained properly.
That's why created the 3T Mastery Method:
Teach > Train > Test
First we TEACH (a) what each C looks like through real-life stories of athletes who have reached the highest levels of our sport (& still LOVE playing) and (b) the mental skills it takes to be strong despite doubts, distractions & drama.
Next, they TRAIN these skills just like we train the physical part of the game using actionable activities & on-field softball drills. From how to stay motivated to how to stay confident, these skills take practice!
Finally, they TEST their skills with added pressure. It starts by adding goals & consequences to drills, then builds from there all the way up to the most high-stakes games. THIS is the real "process" we've been preaching all along!
This proven method gets players out of their own way so they can
✓ Improve their focus
& block out distractions
✓ Build self-confidence
even with high expectations
✓ Bounce back quickly
from setbacks & failures
✓ Stay composed under pressure
& better handle stress
✓ Increase consistency
& eliminate slumps
✓ Stay motivated all season
- even in the grind
✓ WANT to play for each other,
despite inevitable differences
Now ask yourself: Is it more important to stick with the way you've been doing things?
Or to give your players game-changing breakthroughs like these? ↓
You can only get results like these with the
Your players get 6 empowering virtual training sessions teaching them all about the most impactful mental strengths:
Send fear to the bench!
When they learn how to face their fears head on.
Their performance is a reflection of their mindset in more ways than they know. That means when they’re struggling mentally, they going to struggle physically. And most athletes’ struggles come directly from their beliefs and understanding of performance... from a Trophy Chaser Mindset.
In Training #1, we’ll identify their beliefs about performance that hold them back - without them realizing it. Specifically, we’ll look at their ways of thinking about the four most impactful areas of their performance.
We'll guide them through the same lessons and exercises we’ve used with our Collegiate and DI-bound student-athletes to remove those mental blocks and get back on track, so they can face any challenge with confidence, knowing they’ll come out on top!
They'll discover...
>> The #1 way ALL elite softball players think & perform, and it’s not what you think!>> How to uncover limiting believes about softball, personal performance and team success so they can finally feel what’s it’s like to be UNSTOPPABLE
>> How to achieve all of this from their TRUE self - without having to fit any mold other than the one THEY create.
-- and more!
Ditch the selfishness!
When they shift to a Me for We mentality.
Most softball players show up to practice because they‘re supposed to. Elite players are so bought in they seem to have dedication super powers!
They don’t. They simply tap into the deeper fuel that drives them. In this training, your players will master the habits and strategies of being SELF-motivated with everything they do.
They'll learn...
>> How Elite competitors ACTUALLY approach each practice so they can get the most out of their time
>> The KEY actions to focus on that directly correlate to improved performance
>> How to FINALLY figure out how to STAY motivated despite the doubts, distractions & drama!
-- and more!
By the end of this training, they’ll never have to worry about those down days when they simply don’t feel like it. They’ll always know how to get themselves motivated again!
Tap into TRUE belief
When they focus on the things that BUILD confidence
“What if they still have bad days?” Has the voice in YOUR said that yet, Coach?
It’s a common fear that ALL coaches AND players feel. It comes from a misconception about performance. Peak performance isn’t about never performing poorly - it’s about ALWAYS BOUNCING BACK.
You’ll be blown away by this subtle mindset shift.
In this training, your players will get the tools to put those fears in their place so they can stay out of their heads and in the moment.
They'll learn...
>> How to avoid harmful self-talk, and never let it back in the starting lineup
>> Two proven strategies they can test to immediately stop beating themselves up
>> How to bounce back quickly and improve their overall performance - against ANY opponent
-- and more!
More importantly than that, they’ll be building the vital mental skills to get them through the hardest moments in LIFE - and that’s what you’re really here to give them!
Make progress every day
When they have a clear, actionable, plan for success!
The ultimate goal for the kind of coach we work with is to make a DIFFERENCE for their players as PEOPLE.
Even with everything else we have to do, YES... it is possible!
In this training you and your team will learn how to create and KEEP momentum. Without having to rely to a game-changing hit or your pitcher striking everyone out.
So you can stay one step ahead of your opponent, getting better and better all season!
They'll know...
>> How to prepare for each practice and game so you’re productive no matter what the outcome
>> What to do in the middle of the game to shift the focus to the next pitch
>> How to evaluate their individual performance, and make progress every single day
There may be more challenges along the way, but even if there are small slips - your team will have the tools to deal with anything that comes their way!
Stay locked in & ready
When they improve their focus & refocus skills
The desire to compete isn’t the problem. A lack of focus is!
If you want their heads in the game - and avoid those dreaded snowball innings - they have to learn how to re-focus.
Unfortunately, this is a big problem for a lot of athletes. And we coaches are left pulling our hair out, at a loss for why they keep messing up in games when they do just fine in practice!
But what they don’t realize is the cost of continuing to throw them out there without the tools to stay focused and in the moment. How much we’re limiting their potential by only giving them physical reps.
The good news is, there’s a way to train elite-level focus without missing out on important reps!
They'll discover...
>> How to improve their focus on the present no matter what just happened, what the score is, or how poorly they’re doing that day. So they can execute like they KNOW how to.
>> How to calm their mind quickly, even in the middle of an at-bat, right before the next pitch
>> The secret to consistent performance - it's something you can implement today but likely have been doing wrong for years!
It takes a little time to practice these tools at the beginning of practice. But that tiny investment will pay off 10-fold with the decrease in mental errors and mid-game meltdowns. Not to mention the number of games they’ll come back and WIN because they never gave up!
Stay ahead of the competition
By having fun WHILE leaving it all on the field
Elite softball players do more than just play to win. They COMPETE for their best performance. Regardless of the score.
If your team doesn’t approach each game this way from the start, they’re all but guaranteed to end up overworked, under-performing, and on the fast track to stress and burnout with nothing to show for it.
So in this training, we show them how to have a purpose every practice that get them closer to their goals - including how to give themselves credit for the small wins even when they’re still working on their physical skills.
They'll learn...
>> How to create a goal plan that’s both epic AND achievable
>> How to track progress daily so they never get stuck in a slump again
>> The PROVEN method for developing a competitive attitude - despite inevitable obstacles.
-- and more!
They’ll clearly understand how every practice and drill helps them improve. They’ll be able to ditch the overwhelm of lofty goals, instantly see the next best step, and finally unlock the performance you KNEW they were capable of.
Meet our Head Consultant!
Co-Founder & Head Team Consultant, Alicia Smith is in this business to make an impact empowering young women:
"My favorite moments are when a player grows into the confident, empowered leader I knew they could be. All the work they've put in and trials they've gone through pay off when it all clicks and they finally get it. That's truly the best gift I can receive as a coach."
She brings over 25 years of coaching experience (over half of which she's been implementing mental training with her own teams), a Master's in Coaching Sport Performance and 7 years as our Head Team Consultant
The 2023 Michigan High School Softball Coaches' Association's HALL OF FAME INDUCTEE has MANY coaching & consulting accolades, including:
- Michigan High School Softball State Champion X2
- 2011 Detroit Free Press Coach of the year
- Named Athletic Coach Exemplar by HUMANeX
- 13 District titles, 8 Regional titles & 4 Final Four appearances
- Keynote speaker for the Michigan High School Softball Coaches Association
- Featured 2x on the National Fastpitch Coaches Association’s The Dirt Podcast
- Co-host of the Coaching the Mental Game of Softball Podcast, reaching over 69,000 devices to date!
Your players could not be in better hands. They'll feel supported, challenged & valued - isn't that what you truly want for your team?
This program isn’t just Powerpoints & lectures...
It's designed to give players skills to use for LIFE
We created the Me for We Mental Training Program to be the most effective, long-lasting way for your team to go from under-performing to ELITE.
But we also created it to give them skills to use off the field in their everyday lives. That’s why we include these proven, impactful implementation tools!
Have you tried preaching the importance of the mental game: trusting the process... controlling the controllables... not being afraid to fail... only for it to go in one ear and out the other?
Have you brought in other mental performance experts (in real life or on video) and their message resonated for a game or two... then they were back to their old habits?
WE'VE GOT YOU COVERED!
This is a fan favorite tool of the teams we’ve worked with. We walk players through it for immediate implementation and it becomes something they can go back to again and again!
Imagine your team is about to play in the most important game of their career so far. The stakes are high and the opponent is fierce! But instead of freaking out, they’re calm, cool and collected. WHY?!
Because you’ve given them THE PLAYBOOK! A step-by-step action guide for which plays to run and how to run them. All they have to do is follow directions and those rings are theirs!
That’s EXACTLY what we’ve done here! Choose us as your bonus coaches so you can get the ultimate playbook to help your team SUCCEED.
With this workbook, we'll walk your players through the 6 FLOW tools, using the softball-proven Teach > Train > Test Method:
Teach >>
Where they currently are vs where they want to go & what that looks like in real life.
Train >>
Minute-to-Win-It-style games to allow them to practice the skills & make adjustments.
Test!
Real-world softball drills to apply these tools ON the field - getting them ready for game day!
ALL the best Sport Psychology Tools, tailored
specifically for softball!
Your team also gets the ultimate accountability tool - a private team app where we can check in on your team between sessions and answer any questions.
This resource eliminates the worry of, “Are my players going to take this seriously and do the work?”
We use the Band App, which allows your team to
- Easily join virtual training sessions without having to dig through email for a link
- Receive reminders of upcoming trainings
- Stay accountable by sharing pictures of their progress & lessons learned
- Give feedback to further customize trainings
- Receive bonus educational materials
Commit to using this tool and you'll never hear that unsure voice in your head asking, "Are they getting this?"
This tool alone is valued at $1997 (But based on the time, frustration and heartache it'll save you and your team by ensuring they go all in.. it's more likely priceless!)
This tool keeps them engaged and plays to what TRULY motivates them: connection to others, positive feedback, and proof of PROGRESS.
If your players haven’t done much mental training... Or perhaps they have but they still struggle when they don’t reach the level of success they want, quickly enough... This tool was made for them!
After seeing SO many players struggle with the Fear Mindset (this may ring a bell) we realized this was the main culprit holding players back from reaching their potential!
So we created the Win Fail Learn journal with one simple promise: to LET GO of the Fear mindset. And the feedback was amazing (see below!)
Now your players ALL get this tool for FREE!
When you invest in this program,
You’re setting your players up for lifetime success
You're getting 6 weeks of science-backed, personalized mental training from a Hall of Fame Coach. (value $4997)
Plus these bonus implementation tools!
>> Physical workbooks for your players to personally apply what they’re learning & maintain these gains all season! (Value: $297)
>> Win Fail Learn Journals to keep training their Me for We Mindset, helping them make the most of every single practice. (Value: $297)
>> Team App to keep them accountable, motivated & inspired to push themselves. (Value: $497)
That's $6,088 in value your team can get THIS season for
less than $300 per player!
Wanna know the real "magic" that keeps them mentally strong all season?
We admit, there are a lot of programs out there that promise similar results as ours. Maybe you’ve invested in mental training before, only to be disappointed, and this is starting to sound like more of the same.
The reality is... few (if any) of the those programs can get results like we do, for one simple reason:
We help you (yes you, Coach!) become a stronger coach of the mental game!
The fact that you’re on this page means that you KNOW your players can do/be/achieve more. The fact that you’re still reading this far also means that you haven’t found that program yet. Because if you did, you wouldn’t be here, right?
If this applies to you, what you’re about to read is the most important think you’ll ever read about coaching a high-performing team.
It all starts with you.
You WANT to finally go all in on mental training, and you want to make a bigger difference in your players’ lives, and it's going to start with one person. What you do next will ultimately determine your players' growth this season.
Consider this: the fact that you aren't satisfied with your team's outcomes is because YOU are still working from a Trophy Chaser Mindset (you know... the one that’s been keeping you AND your team from bigger and better things)? Notice how that’s sabotaging you, even if you didn’t know it til it was just pointed out.
Here’s the truth:
You have to ask yourself this one vital question that will determine whether your team will succeed of fail. The one question is this:
“Am I going to be 100% responsible for the impact I have on my team... or am I not?”
According to Merriam-Webster, the definition of responsibility is: Causing something to happen.
So, that means whatever impact you have - or haven't - had on your team: you’ve helped cause that.
If you want this training to stick, you have to be the kind of coach who MAKES it stick.
You're already a great coach, or you wouldn't have gotten your team this far. But as one of our coaches says, "What got you here won't get you there!"
You need the right support & tools if you want to go to YOUR next level. That's why we include these EPIC Coach Bonuses as a part of the whole package! Starting with...
COACH BONUS #1 - COACH TOOLKIT
The past 10 years, we have been implementing & refining the best practices from Sport Psychology, Leadership & Coaching. Altogether there are HUNDREDS of resources in this Toolkit to help you
>> Keep your team culture strong
>> Design drills that train the mental game the whole time
>> Refresh your team's mental skills in a fun way
>> Get the most out of your girls every day
Made for softball coaches, BY softball coaches. So they mental training doesn't stop after 6 weeks, and you don't feel overwhelmed trying to do it all!
Tool #1 The Team Culture Blueprint
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This is covered in one of the weeks with Alicia, but it's WAY more effective & long-lasting if the coaches understand the process too!
With the amount of internal struggles young ladies have today, it they're not reminded of their Blueprint throughout the season, they tend to get lost in the doubts, drama and distractions. When coaches are well-versed in this, we can help them stay in their own peak performance zone SO THAT they can help the team as a whole!
PLUS, we've included ALL past Culture Calls with softball coaching greats Lonni Alameda, Hutch, Patrick Murphy, Sue Enquist & Mike Candrea to get ideas and tip straight from the GOATS of our profession!
Tool #2 The Fail Forward Practice Bundle
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This has been a fan favorite. Over 100 simple, yet effective, challenge-style drills for every position skill set.
These drills allow your girls to TEST their new found mental skills at practice so they can be game-ready. And they're fun! There's always a need for fundamental work, reps and situations. But when you start to add in these challenges, that "mindset gap" between practice and game mode gets shorter and shorter.
Plus this bundle also includes tools for motivation, getting (and staying) out of slumps, and keeping the game fun with the Game-With-the-Game. All tested by real coaches at all levels and proven to keep their head where it needs to be.
Tool #3 The Flip Your Script Challenge
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This is the scrimmage version of the full program. If you feel your team needs a refresher after the 6 weeks of consulting with Alicia... This is a great resource!
At each new level they reach throughout season, those old habits will pop back up. They'll get hard on themselves again, lose motivation & sometimes act like they never learned anything about the mental game. But that's just the stress talking.
With this fun, actionable mini-training, they can review the basic mental skills and get right back to competing & being awesome!
#4 The Coaching Impact Accelerator
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If you want to improve YOUR coaching skills, and create the right environment for that Me for We Mindset, the Accelerator has the tools you'll need!
From Sport Psychology strategies to get the best out of your athletes... To Motor Learning principles that make the work they do in practice actually SHOW up on game day... This is YOUR toolkit to level up your impact. <3
As great as those tools are, year after year...
The #1 thing Sweet Spotters get the most out of is
THE SUPPORTIVE COMMUNITY
You may have noticed multiple World Series teams with Mental Performance Consultants in their dugouts.
And though most teams can't afford that (we get it!)... Now you don't have to because you'll have your own mental game coach & experienced coaching colleagues in your pocket!
Have questions about coaching the mental game? Not clear on how to implement? Have a question specific to your team & what they’re dealing with?
You'll have access to our private app where you can post questions on the fly to get feedback & participate in challenges to hold yourself accountable to keep growing!
Or hop on one of our bi-weekly live (+ recorded) Zoom calls to get advice on an area where you're stuck or simply get new ideas from a network of amazing people with all sorts of experiences, tips and advice to share!
But before you think, "I don't need this program... I can train the mental game on my own,"
BEWARE.
It's harder than you think!
It seems like a pretty straight-forward system, right? Head back to YouTube or podcasts. Learn some things. Bring it to your players. And reap the rewards!
Unfortunately... No.
When it comes to coaching the mental game, we as a profession are WAY behind. Effective mental training SO much more complex than the one-and-done, motivational workshops, quotes & gimmicks.
Let me explain what I mean... and why this is important to you (AND your team.)
You wouldn't
> Go into the gym for an hour and hope is lasts all season
> Tell your girls to go lift without explaining exactly how to do it
> Leave their training to someone without the credentials, training & experience
Right?!
But that's what most coaches currently do with the mental game & it's no surprise that the results never change.
Maybe you’ve experienced it yourself.
You've done so much research & have tried everything you can think of to teach them how to be tougher - but they just don't seem to get it.
You listen for hours to two crazy ladies on some podcast chat about the mental game - but it's still not working with your team like you'd hoped.
Before you know it, you’re out of cards to play, at a complete loss for how to get them out of their heads, and maybe even wondering if you’re cut out for this gig after all.
So here’s the million dollar question...
How much longer can you continue doing the same thing, expecting different results?
Meet our Coaches' Coach!
Co-Founder & Head Coaches' Coach, Mel Rushing is in this business to support the leaders who want to make an impact:
"It lights me up when I can see a coach visually relax as they realize just how much they really are making a difference. From teaching how to implement the mental game to highlighting their strengths as a coach so they can continue to help their girls - I love feeling supportive."
She has spent over 13 seasons & 18 years of coaching the mental game, using her Master's degrees in Sport Psychology and Leadership & Learning, including 7 years as our Head Coaches' Coach.
Her experiences & accolades include:
- Over a decade coaching at the college level
- Member of the NFCA DIII All-American Committee
- Speaker for the Michigan High School Softball Coaches Association
- Featured 2x on the National Fastpitch Coaches Association’s The Dirt Podcast
- Co-host of the Coaching the Mental Game of Softball Podcast, reaching over 69,000 devices to date!
Coaching can be lonely, and there's certainly a LOT of responsibility. It's about time you get the support you need, so you can be your BEST for your team.
Now having said all that...
This program is NOT for everyone
Sweet Spotters say the Me for We Mental Training Program is the most impactful & effective way to train the mental game.
It’s light on theory and BIG on application. It shifts your players’ mindset so they improve their mental toughness YEARS sooner than they could on their own (speaking from experience!)
And your girls get the tools to STAY in that mindset too. It approaches mental training like no other program out there (and we have the success stories to prove it!)
Still... If you’re looking for a magic wand or a quick fix for your players, this program is not for you.
The Me for We Mental Training Program is designed to give players the tools to change their mindset. Not just for a game... For LIFE.
So if you’re looking for a quick fix, keep looking.
If you’re just learning about mental training and dabbling in it for now, the Toolkit Toolkit probably isn’t right for you... yet.
To get the most out of the Toolkit you’ve got to know - in your gut - that the mental game is the missing piece your team needs.
Finally, if your MAIN focus is to win games, boost stats & bring home rings, it’s probably not a good fit. This program is best for impact-focused coaches who know that coaching the PERSON is the best way to coaching the PLAYER.
That said, if you’re ready to start unlocking their true potential and you’re willing to put in the necessary time and effort (yes there is time and effort involved) to make that dream come to life... then here is your chance!
If that sounds like you, and you’re 100% willing to make that commitment to your players, we promise this program will be your surest path to success.
IN FACT: WE GUARANTEE IT!
We’re going to give you an entire year - 365 days - to utilize ALL of the training & resources... So you can prove to yourself, your team, AND their parents that the investment is worth every penny.
If it isn't, all you need to do is contact our team and they’ll happily return your investment.
So here’s the deal we’re making with you right now...
We’re promising the fastest path to the team you’ve always dreamed of. By transforming their approach from a stuck, timid Trophy Chaser into the Mentally Tough, TEAM Player you knew they always could be. And giving you all the tools and resources you need to help them take HUGE strides...
But you have skin in this game too. You have to do the work. And if you’re not willing to... Frankly, you’ll be wasting everyone’s time.
To sum up the deal...You use our program & resources for a YEAR, then at the end if you’re not
>> Absolutely amazed with their growth
>> Proud of how tough & resilient they've been
>> Sincerely proud of your OWN growth
Simply let our team know, show us the work you’ve done, and we’ll refund the entire investment.
Sounds more than fair, right?
But there is one catch.
YOU HAVE TO COMMIT & DO THE WORK
The reason is simple... nothing sticks unless you PRACTICE it.
People confuse acquiring with accomplishing. They’ll pay for programs or lessons and think they’re taking action. But 2, 3, 6 months later, after they haven’t even show up, they’re asking for a refund, feeling guilty that they didn’t make the time.
You already know...
Nothing works unless YOU do.
All the guarantees in the world won’t make you prioritize the work. So if you’re not fully committed to this program and incorporating it into everything you do as a team, then save your money. No judgment - but it’s the same as paying for private lessons and never practicing in between.
However...
If you’re committed to taking action, then this is one of the most generous guarantees you’ll ever get.
Because it gives you a full year to apply what you learned in the training sessions, try out the drills, learn the coaching tools and be a part of an amazing community.
You get an entire season to go from wishing and hoping to getting results. Or you get your money back!
It’s time for you to make one of two choices...
Choice A: do nothing. And as you already know... If you choose nothing, then nothing changes. To which you may be thinking, "Well we don't have it THAT bad..."
But that’s not entirely accurate. If you don't do shift them out of the Trophy Chaser mindset, where will they be in a few months... or a few years? If you said "the same place," you're actually wrong.
They'll be worse off. Each failure, game & season will pile on more frustration as they continually fall short of expectations. Without the tools to deal this stress, your players will, at best, get left behind. At worst, they'll quit. With a bitter taste in their mouth, only remembering how softball made them miserable.
So if you know you DON'T WANT THAT for your players, then your choice is obvious:
Invest in the Me for We Mental Training Program and watch them grow into the confident, happy ball players you knew they could be!
Schedule your Game Plan Call today! READY TO RACK UP THOSE WINS &
DEVELOP A HIGH-PERFORMING, COHESIVE TEAM?
The Me for We Mental Training Program + Bonuses!
$2997
(Payment plans available!)
Me for We Multi-Team Bootcamp + Bonuses!
$100pp
(Minimum 20 players)
Let's commit to the best game plan for YOUR team!
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Answers to your FAQs
What makes this program special?
The Me for We Mental Training Program was specifically crafted specifically for softball teams. What makes THIS program so different than any other resource you’ve ever come across boils down to 3 distinct differences:
1| SOFTBALL-SPECIFIC - We've spent DECADES applying scientifically-proven Sport Psych concepts to our teams, to create the best program specifically for our sport. Softball is our specialty, which means the players GET what we're talking about quickly and apply it right away!
2 | ME FOR WE - At Mental Sweet Spot, we don’t believe in we OVER me. We start with the individual and how they can be their best in service of a greater team mission.
3 | A CUSTOMIZED PLAN - Your team is different. Your coaching style is different. The Me for We program shows you how to craft the right game plan for your team based on the VISION you create together. Then, you get the tools to execute on that plan and build something truly amazing.
I’m still pretty new to coaching. Is this a good fit for me?
The Me for We program was created for those who have a passion for making an impact. If you’ve got the softball basics covered, we can help you level up their performance when they’re under pressure!
The beautiful thing about this program is that it works for new coaches AND seasoned coaches, due to the nature of our sport’s seasons, which provide new adventures each and every year. So yes, if you’re new to coaching this is 100% for you (and MOST veterans will tell you they wish they had started coaching the mental game earlier!)
My team is young/inexperienced - will this program still help them?
Players under the age of about 12 don’t quite grasp all of these topics yet, so we suggest Bootcamps for the youngsters to tailor our language to their level.
12u & up, it doesn’t matter what their experience level - mental training ALWAYS helps performance. In fact, we’ll show them how to build confidence that will put them ahead of other teams who opt to push it off 'til later!
My team is already pretty successful - is this stuff necessary?
Abso-freakin’-lutely YES. In fact, one of the biggest breakthroughs you and your team will experience is how much more ENJOYABLE that success is, once you level up your mental game!
In fact, we’ll show them how to build confidence that will put them ahead of other teams who opt to push it off 'til later!
This sounds overwhelming - how much time will this take to implement?
If this program sounds like a beast, it might just be because you feel overwhelmed with coaching itself. And you’re trying to imagine how you’ll add this program to your existing to-do list.
The Me for We program is the ANTIDOTE to overwhelm. It’s designed to give you focus and clarity on your DREAM goals. It will help you align your actions so you can see the BIG PICTURE of where you’re headed.
Also, you have LIFETIME Access to the team AND coach Toolkits! It’s not something you have to RUSH to complete. Inside the program, we help you identify where best to start, depending on where your team currently is.
That doesn’t require completing the entire thing.
So, if you can commit to 1-2 focused hours a week, you’ll begin to see a whole new level of growth and progress in your team immediately!
I don’t have full time (or even part time) assistants. Will this be too much for just me?
As you’ll quickly learn, we highly recommend surrounding yourself with the right people to support you as you realize your vision for your team. However, many coaches do get results carrying the brunt of the weight themselves.
Training your team’s mental performance without a full staff of coaches won’t be too much work - it will simply mean you will move at a different pace. With that being said, we empower our coaches to utilize the built-in community to get the support, advice, and encouragement you need!
I struggle with my own confidence and whether I’m doing enough/the right thing for my players.
We can relate! If you have a passion and desire to help your athletes, YES! We can help you break through any fear or worry about perfectionism, criticism or letting others down.
I’m pretty old-school. Will this stuff be too out there for me?
Nope! Your old-school values of hard work, determination and grit will serve you as you take your coaching skills to the next level.
This generation is different. It’s time we accept that. AND they can be even BETTER than the last... IF they have the right tools and the kind of leader that will guide them though the process.
What can I expect once I set up a call?
Finding out if it's a good fit is a 3-step process:
Step 1: Schedule a (FREE) Game Plan Call
On that call, we’ll discuss what your team is struggling with and the specific ways the FLOW Toolkit can help you.
Step 2: Discover if we're a good fit for each other
This is why it's important to have all stakeholders on the call - so we can answer any and all questions you may have.
Step 3: Decide!
By the end, if we decide we are a fit for each other, you can make your deposit & claim your team's spot on our limited schedule ;)
Then we'll agree on a time frame for you to decide on a payment plan & get your team on the schedule for their mental training sessions!
If for any reason we’re not a fit, we will send you with excellent alternative options.
What’s the guarantee/refund policy?
We offer a 365-day conditional guarantee. Which is a little different than a refund.
We require you to put in the work: attend all training calls, implement the tools & drills we share, interact with the coach app, go through & try out the Coach Toolkit... Basically show that you committed and it still didn’t help your team.
We want there to be NO RISK whatsoever when you decide to join us, but this is how confident we are in our product! Please see terms & conditions for details.
Can all the coaches go through this program? What about multiple teams?
Absolutely! We encourage it! We understand the power of working as a team better than most ;) so we definitely want that to extend to the coaches!
We've found that teams within an organization are much more committed if they CHOOSE to commit to the program independently.
That being said, there are countless benefits to the entire organization getting on board.
Particularly for organizations who want to build a reputation amongst college coaches of developing mentally strong, confident athletes and cohesive, high-performing teams!
Is there support available if I have questions or we go through a rough patch?
As a Sweet Spotter, we want you to know we’ve absolutely got your back! You have
#1 Players have the Team App - This is where they can share wins, ask questions of the coaches, and get any additional advice/feedback they need during the 6-wk training.
#2 Coaches have lifetime access to the members-only group - This is your community. It’s your chance to ask questions and get feedback on what you’re doing with your team
#3 Coaches also get a year’s worth of monthly Coaches Meetings - You’ll also receive LIVE group coaching with Mel and other members, where any questions, clarifications or wins can be directed!
#4 For technical questions, reach out to [email protected]